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Monday, April 19, 2010 @ 7:25 AM
.*Relationship Matters*. ^ ^ Been wanting to pen down my thoughts... . . But more often than not, whenever I feel like blogging about something... . I aint at home. . Especially thoughts that just comes and goes, as they wish. . And I welcome any comments from my readers. Do leave a tag, so I know there's someone reading alrights! =) . . It's Year Twenty Ten alrdy. . And I have been single for the longest time. .One Year n 4months. . I'm not procastinating here about my single status. Just singing out my rants. . Seeing my friends getting attached, engaged, married, having kids... This seems to be the IN Trend now. . At least for my 'X' Generation ATM. . . Then here I am... Not in the "TREND" .Hahahs. . . Whenever I meet someone New... No one will believe that I'm not attached. . ABSOLUTELY NO ONE. . And I'm Serious! =/ . It often comes to them as an assumption that: . this girl is so nice this girl is so bubbly and friendly this girl is so easy to get along this girl definitely has 9999 suitors . .PERIOD. . Next thing, . Ohhhh... She must be very choosy She must have 10,000 expectations She must be a Play Girl She must be after some rich guy She must be playing hard to get . And the list goes on... . . Who really knows what's the actual reason? . . Here's my list of possibilities: . Good men are taken Dun trust love Afraid of getting hurt Can't seem to find the Right Person No chemistry or feelings Have been hurt previously Unable to commit No confidence to start a new r/s No hurry to start Financial factor of he/she Physical Appearance of he/she . All of these plays an important factor, in taking the BIG Step in. . Well, in my perspective, . I feel... Fate and timing plays an even more important role. . You need fate to meet the person, and the right time to get to know the party more... before you can mention the above considerations. . . However, does it mean that if you are attached or married, you will be Happy? . (think i will touch on this on my next post) . On a personal note, . I'm not exactly someone who falls in love easily. To really love someone with all yr heart... I have only Loved TWO. (up till date) . And sad to say, None of my ex-bfs are this Two. . So this TWO men will always hold this special place in my Heart. . Maybe Love is not a possession, I will keep our Beautiful Memories till the day I leave. . Irony as it seems, . If the outcome deems how you want it to be, will you still cherish it preciously? . . It is often when you know it will never be yours, the thought of having it is so far Greater... . than having the riches in the World... . . The Amount of Happiness and Contentment will then be .Doubled. . -get it?- Labels: Nes Relationship Matters. |
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